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Frequently Asked
Questions
Q. Is cremation dearer than burial?
A.
Generally cremation is cheaper than burial at major
cemetery/crematoria complexes. However, you should discuss the
matter with a funeral director who will be able to advise you
of the precise cost relevant to your particular
locality.
Q. Are there any religious groups which
forbid cremation to their members?
A. Yes, it is
forbidden by Orthodox Jews and Moslems and some other
religions. However, most Christian denominations, including
Roman Catholics, allow cremation. It is the normal method of
disposition of the dead for Sikhs, Hindus, Parsees and
Buddhists.
Q. What religious ceremony can I have with
cremation?
A. Services for burial and/or cremation are
the same, apart from the form of committal. The service may
take place in one's own church or funeral chapel with a short
committal service at the crematorium, or the whole service may
be conducted in the crematorium chapel. Alternatively, the
whole service may be conducted elsewhere, with no service at
the crematorium. You may arrange for your own clergyman to
conduct he service at the crematorium. The form of service
should be arranged with the clergyman and funeral
director.
Q. Must there be any religious ceremony with
cremation? Or burial?
A. No. A civil ceremony can be
conducted or there may be none at all.
Q. What can happen to the cremated
remains?
A. Some people request that their cremated
remains be strewn or scattered. The appropriate arrangements
may be made with the crematorium for this to be done. Each
crematorium provides a variety of memorials.
Q. What happens at the crematorium on the day
of the funeral?
A. The coffin is usually brought into
the chapel and placed on the catafalque prior to the mourners
entering and taking their seats. At the appropriate time
during the service the coffin will be removed from view, by
drawn curtains or either by being lowered or rotated through
an opening in a wall. The method varies at each crematorium.
At the end of the service the mourners leave the chapel and
can inspect the floral arrangements before
leaving.
Q. What happens to the coffin after the
service?
A. It is withdrawn into a committal room where
the nameplate of the coffin is checked with the cremation
order to ensure correct identity. The coffin is then
identified with a label giving all the relevant information.
This identification stays with the coffin until the final
disposal of the cremated remains.
Q. Does the cremation take place immediately,
or are the coffins stored up until a number are ready to be
cremated?
A. The cremation will follow as soon as
possible after the service. Health Regulations now require
that a cremation must take place no later than 24 hours
after the funeral's arrival at the
crematorium.
Q. Is the coffin cremated with the
body?
A. Yes.
Q. Is more than one coffin cremated at one
time in a cremator?
A. No. The only exceptions
permitted to this rule are in the case of a mother and baby or
twin children, when some crematoria may accept both in the
same coffin if the next of kin requests that the two be
cremated together.
Q. Can relatives witness the committal of the
coffin to the cremator?
A. Yes. People are permitted to
attend if they wish, however, advance notice is required and
special arrangements as to timing may need to be
made.
Q. Can I keep the cremated
remains if I want to, or must I dispose of
them? A. In most instances
disposal of the cremated remains is the responsibility of the
administrators of the estate. They may keep the cremated
remains if they so wish or they may prefer to arrange a
memorial.
Q. Should our children attend the
funeral?
A. This is a decision that must rest with the
parents. Children suffer grief and should be encouraged to
express their emotions. Given the opportunity to attend the
funeral of someone they loved and cared about, Children will
be allowed to sort out the finality of death in their own
minds and deal with it accordingly. If a child expresses a
definite wish to attend the funeral, that wish should not be
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